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Depression and the PhD

26/9/2015

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TRIGGER WARNING: Depression

Some caveats to begin with: 

Everyone experiences depression differently, and to different degrees. I’m describing my (abbreviated) personal journey through my depression. This will not be the same for everyone, and is not The Answer
™, just one answer. But I hope it will be useful to someone going through depression, or a friend or loved one who wants to know how depression may feel.
PhD programs can be stressful. If you didn’t know that, now you do. It is fantastic that people discuss how they’re feeling about their PhD workloads and how stressed they may or may not be, using Twitter hashtags such as #phdlife.

​The issue comes with normalisation - thinking that it’s ok to always feel stressed during your PhD - and then just living with the stress.

Don’t get me wrong - in small doses, stress is a great motivator. A problem arises when those feelings of stress persist even when there isn’t, for example, a looming deadline. And then it can lead to depression, limiting your ability to deal with any upcoming deadline at all.
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When stress isn't motivating, but crippling. Image by Loading Artist.
And therein lies the problem. I had great supervisors, and an interesting project, so I counted myself as one of the lucky ones. I also had a fantastic, supportive partner (and still do!). Stress was a ‘normal’ part of the PhD, so what did I have to worry about?  

There were days where I just couldn’t get out of bed. I wished that the day would remain on ‘pause’ until I decided I was ready to get up and face the world. Even though my PhD was progressing nicely, I still felt stressed and sad.

I couldn't concentrate on reading a paper for more than 2 minutes before my vision blurred for no apparent reason. I couldn't write a sentence without having three other trains of thought (relevant or not) interrupting it. I’d also find myself walking to or from my office and feel the sudden urge to sprint down the corridor. But I had no energy to do anything of the like.

But I figured that I mustn’t really have depression, because what do I have to be depressed about? Perhaps I had just spontaneously become scatterbrained.

Over a period of a few months, things got worse. My morning sleep-ins became longer, I sniped at my partner, I still felt sad and always felt like crying. Even my favourite computer and console games felt boring.

I figured that yes, maybe now I do have depression. But only a little bit. Just a light case.
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Turns out, this doesn't work. Also, you should definitely read this article+comic by Allie Brosh about how depression affected her. Image by Hyperbole and a Half.
​I didn’t see a doctor about how depressed I felt for a long time because, again, I thought it was a natural part of the PhD process. It wasn’t coming out of nowhere, as it does for some, but from a definable stressor. I likened it to someone repeatedly hitting their head against a wall: their head hurts, they know why it hurts, so wouldn’t it be silly of them to take some painkillers and merrily continue on their head-smacking ways? 

My doctor nodded when I described this scenario, and said, “Are you going to stop doing your PhD?” I said no, the PhD program was fine, I was just stressed and depressed for no apparent reason.

​“So”, she replied, “Why don't you medicate yourself while you continue the PhD, and when you’re finished, if you want to, you can slowly come off the medication?”

And there was the seemingly obvious answer. If the cause of my depression was the PhD, I needed to take some antidepressants to continue the program. If it wasn’t the PhD, but the beginning of clinical depression, then I would have refused medication for the entire PhD program for no reason.

​Here was a new option: finish the PhD program WHILST AT THE SAME TIME feeling better about myself and the world in general.
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 I have to remind myself that, sometimes, maybe, doctors just might know what they're talking about.
​Image from KnowYourMeme.com.
(A side note: when you have an upswing in mood, and everything is feeling a bit better with the world, go see your doctor. This may seem counterintuitive - after all, you’re feeling better - but now is the time you’ll be motivated enough and able enough to step outside and talk to someone about how you’re feeling. If you wait until you are at your worst, you may not feel able to talk to the doctor about what your going through and just put off the potential diagnosis and help.)

This is the way I personally feel about antidepressants (besides complicated issues of overprescription): if the medical community has spent millions of dollars and decades of research into helping people with depression, why not take advantage of their hard work? Why suffer in a time where you have options to feel better? 

I know that not all cases of depression can be easily fixed with medication. In my case, it did work. Some people need to try different types of medication, or find that the medication only takes some of the depression away.

But if you are on the road to some kind of recovery, please don’t feel guilty about the time you’ve lost. You were unable to work during that time, just like with many other illnesses. But when you feel better, capitalise on it. Use this time to talk to your supervisors, get a clear idea of your tasks, and create plans to get work done.

​​This doesn’t mean you should work yourself into the ground to make up for 'lost time'. It means you should work efficiently and at your normal pace, to keep that good feeling going for as long as possible. Also explore whether you can extend your PhD program deadlines, or go part-time for a little bit (if you are able) for more time to get back on your feet.
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And read ALL the papers! Images by Hyperbole and a Half.
I still suffer from periods of depression. But those depressive periods are much shorter and much less emotionally exhaustive than before. And I can bounce back to the pure enjoyment of research much, much quicker. 

Now, I’m off to read about fossil preservation in deltas and estuaries, and tonight will play video games I’ve actually been looking forward to!

A huge thank you to my Twitter friends for reaching out and showing support. You guys rock!
8 Comments
Barnesm
30/9/2015 09:29:06 pm

I am so grateful that people like you choose to speak out about your experience with depression as it helps to show the varied experience and different ways to deal with it.

I have been lucky and have never suffered the depression you describe but I know friends and family that have and they too feel like it is just something they 'have to get over' or 'tough it out' or worse that is something wrong with them.

I offer support by providing them hot tea on request and a card that says "I will slap on your behalf any one person of your choice who tells you 'just get over it".

Thanks again and I admit every PhD student I have ever known, myself included feels this "The issue comes with normalisation - thinking that it’s ok to always feel stressed during your PhD - and then just living with the stress".

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Caitlin Syme link
3/10/2015 07:21:16 pm

Thank you! I'm glad you feel that way - I think it's really important to talk about how it shouldn't just be par for the course to feel depressed and anxious during a PhD, or any higher ed courses.

Your method of support is most excellent :) Keep it up!

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L.J.
28/10/2015 05:43:50 pm

I'm glad to see this being addressed. Thanks for sharing your story to help others.

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Caitlin Syme link
3/11/2015 08:00:56 pm

No worries, I'm glad you found it helpful!

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Jim Kirkland link
29/10/2015 08:19:55 am

Best of times and the worse of times...
I had a pretty series break down working on my Ph.D. at the Univ. of Colorado, in 1984 right before NAPC IV. Erle Kauffman had me training numerous MS students in field techniques and I had been wrangled into leading too many field trips, or at least writing sections for guidebooks. LEARN TO SAY NO TO YOUR ADVISOR. I certainly wasn't good at it resulting in a 1360 p. diss. (2/3rds single spaced)...

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Caitlin Syme link
3/11/2015 08:24:01 pm

I'm sorry to hear about your PhD experience. And definitely good advice to learn how to say no, even when it might be for something you actually want to do! Thanks for sharing what you went through.

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Laura
29/10/2015 08:26:33 am

You have verbalized the undeniable truth of many graduate students.

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Caitlin Syme link
3/11/2015 08:25:01 pm

Yeah, quite a few people have been saying that. It is the unspoken truth!

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    Dr Caitlin Syme is a palaeontologist studying the taphonomy (preservation state) of fossil non-avian dinosaurs, crocodiles and fish from the Winton Formation, Queensland, Australia. Think forensic science or CSI for fossils, and you're on the right track!

    Posts on this blog focus mainly on vertebrate palaeontology and taphonomy, as well early career researcher (ERC) productivity tips and insights.


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